i don fit well into society

with my extreme and weird interest in things, together with my introvert character, i find myself in many situation where i find i have no common topic to talk about..

you see, the common topic people chat about..

1. food (i am not a fan of food hunting, at least not in singapore. homecook is the best)

2. soccer (or any sports in general. i love sports and love seeing how underdog teams grab they opportunities and outperform, but you see, i don really follow the sports news closely. )

3. drama (i seldom watch tv or shows nowadays. the last tv-series was how i met your mother. i prefer to watch things with strong content)

4. drinking / clubbing (i nv club for years, and drinking is always about the company, not about visiting the most hippy and happening places)

5. games (i only play idiot proof games nowadays, which i just happen to delete them away )

6. shopping (my mom taught me well, only to buy things i need, and curb the urge to buy things i want. also, as i'm working towards a nomad lifestyle, i don need lots of things. less is actually more)

7. gossips (i don follow celebrity news, unless i find them inspiring. i don remember their names, what show they starred in and their latest rumours. by nature, not a very gossipy person)

8. reading (i have huge difficulties finishing a fiction book. i prefer self help than fiction, but people seldom discuss about self help. recently, i realised i kind of like to read biography of inspiring people)

9. movies (haha.. i seriously cant name a movie showing in theatres now. somehow, don know since went, i stop following up on what new this week in the movies, as most movies content are plain crap. but i believe, this is something i can work on)

10. music (i lost touch ever since i started working, as i have little to no time to listen to radio. i know, this i can work on)


and last but not least, Travelling.

my form of travelling is kind of different from the majority. to me, anything crowded means the place has lost it favour.

while for many, the form of traveling may be to go shopping or visit iconic landmarks (i do make exception to go visit the must-go-and-see landmarks), my form of a holiday is about adventuring and escaping to nature..

its is always easier to sink into the vast nature and admire and appreciate the small little thing and company we are so fortunate to have. but when it comes to the iconic landmarks, it more like photo-taking for bragging rights.. i don feel i "got it" much...

so as always, when i try to tell my adventurers stories, people turn and give me a glare with a disapproving look staring back at me..


sometimes, i really feel i don fit well in society...